Breaking My taboo: Pooping
Society has so many taboos. I don’t know if it’s just an English thing, but we have so many – sex, blood, periods, sex work, death … the list goes on. People think that we are overcoming the societal taboos, but we’re not. If we were I wouldn’t have withheld a bunch of post on bowels, and toilet habits –…
15 Practical Blow Job Tips for TMD, Part 2
Part 1 of the blow job tips and jaw pain was one of those posts that blew up unexpectedly, and since I’m still giving blow jobs, and my jaw is still a right bastard I have even more tips for you! Some are new, and some are an extension of the tips from the first part. Like last time, a…
Elust 123 | Sex Bloggers Are Awesome!
Photo courtesy of Deviant Succubus Welcome to Elust 123– The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #124? Start with the rules, come back November 1st to…
My Nexplanon Implant Story: The Procedure
I am nervous. In a little under an hour I will be getting the Nexplanon implant. I am not nervous about getting the implant. After all, I’ve been through it all twice before, and I know the procedure. I’m nervous about the potential effects of the implant. I’ve been hormone free for a little over three years, and if I…
My menstrual cycle controls my life.
My menstrual cycle controls my life. This post was written a few weeks ago, but is still completely relevant. I know I’ve written something on this topic before, but it’s cathartic to write about it. Currently, I’m home alone. My partner is away for the night, and I’ve a friend on the train who’s coming to stay with me (and…
Zumio S Review
When I first opened the box and saw the Zumio S nestled in its case, I was very confused. It looks like it was on already, but it wasn’t. Then I thought it had a case on it, but it didn’t. Finally, I realised it a silicone coating, and it’s meant to stay on the toy. If you want to…
The Collection Sweet Cream Classic Slimline Vibrator by Blush Novelties
I haven’t used a slimline vibrator in years. I own a lot of specialised vibrators – like the Zumio, or I own lots of wand style vibrators – like my Doxy wands. So, I was really looking forward to trying The Collection Sweet Cream Classic Slimline Vibrator.
Satisfyer Vibes Charming Smile [Sex Toy Review]
My name is Sweetgirl, and I am a forty something married submissive. My Dominant is my husband MrH and we have been together nearly 25 years and practicing D/s for almost 2 years at this point. I also have chronic pain. It’s been constant, debilitating and life changing. I have advanced osteoarthritis, a couple of discs that bulge, and one…
Elust 119 | Sex Bloggers Are Awesome!
The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you're looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it'll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #119? Start with the rules, come back June 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for…
Please stop fucking, frolicking, and filming in accessible bathrooms!
Whist I have seen this type of video a number of times in my career, recently I came across it again, and it involved lots of squirt all over everywhere. The video was made by someone I am friendly with, and I wish the people in the video no ill will, but I need to get out my thoughts on…
Elust 118 | Sex Bloggers Are Awesome!
The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you're looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it'll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #119? Start with the rules, come back June 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for…
Flirtation is better than sex.
I enjoy the dance. The thrill. The ‘heart pounding in chest’ feeling because someone you’re attracted to is near, far better than sex. Don’t get me wrong, I love sex, but there’s just something about the lead up to the act that is far more intoxicating.
I’m scared to masturbate.
First off, whilst there was a period of body enforced orgasm denial, I'm happy to report it's at an end! Since my last post, my body cooperated enough to have sex, and 2 blissful orgasms. Unsurprisingly, I also spent the rest of the day recovering. Now, let's dive into the apparent mental orgasm denial I've gotten myself into.Here's the thing,…
I’m horny, but my body won’t let me masturbate.
“I want to climb him like a tree.” I’ve heard that expression so often, but I am feeling it today. I want to climb my partner, kiss him, touch him, explore his skin. I’m worried that if I don’t grope him, or do something to sate the arousal, I might combust from the sheer intensity of it.
Respect our boundaries, pay our fees. Don’t ask us to watch you wank for free.
My time is not free. A sentiment all freelancers, bloggers, and self-employed people feel deeply. It’s deeply ingrained that time is money, and when you live by that saying it’s really hard to switch off.As such, you’d expect that those in a similar position to yourself - a freelancer, self-employed person, or sex blogger, would understand that whilst you should…
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